Deana Speaks

Speaker, author, and conflict strategy educator

Narcissists aren't clever.They're just persistent.

Survivor. Strategist. Founder of Soul Navigators.

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There simply isn't enough established clinical language to fully describe what it's like to encounter, love, or live in relationship with the devil on earth in human form: the narcissist.

But learning the enemy does three things at once:

  1. It disarms the narcissist completely.
  2. It hands you the leverage of knowledge: the tools, weapons, and resources to finally escape and win.
  3. It turns hell into a belly laugh, once you pull back the curtain and find the Wizard of Oz.

Narcissists are not as clever as they seem. They're just persistent. Outlast their persistence, and you win.

I'm here to show you how to persist, and to snatch back the God-given dignity, identity, and destiny they keep trying to steal.

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Two books. Two battles. Same enemy.

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Co-Parenting with Gargamel

Outsmart & overcome narcissistic abuse in high-conflict co-parenting

For when your co-parent spends more energy plotting against you than parenting.

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RESETTERS, a nine-module journey for lasting change by Deana Snipes, shown as a book, tablet, and phone, with the nine modules: Recognition, Emotional Regulation, Stoic Communication, Evidence and Documentation, Tactical Response, Truth, Exit, Righteousness, and Setting Boundaries and Goals.

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The psychologyMaladaptive remorse.

Maladaptive remorse: when remorse never becomes accountability

Remorse is supposed to lead to growth… but what happens when ego kills that maturation process?

7 min read
Co-parentingThe narcissists’ twisted framing of child support.

Co-parenting with a narcissist: why asking them to help with their own children becomes an entire conflict

Asking a narcissist to help with their own children can automatically get translated into them helping you “win.”

3 min read
Smear campaignsInteresting. Let me screenshot that.

Why a smear campaign is a gold mine in a legal battle

If you're in a legal battle with a narcissist, the best thing they can do to you is smear campaign you. Seriously.

2 min read
The psychologyShapeshifting Abuse.

The abuse didn’t stop. It pivoted.

The abuse doesn’t necessarily stop when the marriage ends. It pivots toward wherever the leverage is.

5 min read
Smear campaignsDARVO… You're STILL the villain.

How to know your narcissistic ex isn't over you

They're not arguing with you anymore. They're arguing with the meaning of what happened.

1 min read
HealingTruth doesn't expire.

Truth doesn't have an expiration date

Smear campaigns expire. Lies expire. False narratives expire. Truth doesn't.

1 min read