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A program by Deana Snipes · Heal. Rebuild. Reset. Thrive.

RESETTERS: A Program for Women Who Are Ready to Rebuild

Nine modules that turn what you survived into a strategy for what comes next.

Individuals — Start Here Enroll My Organization
RESETTERS, a nine-module journey for lasting change by Deana Snipes, shown as a book, tablet, and phone, with the nine modules: Recognition, Emotional Regulation, Stoic Communication, Evidence and Documentation, Tactical Response, Truth, Exit, Righteousness, and Setting Boundaries and Goals.

Nine modules. One word to rebuild on.

Each letter of RESETTERS is a skill. Each module takes about 45 to 50 minutes, in four short lessons.

  1. Module 1

    R — Recognition

    Seeing yourself clearly.

  2. Module 2

    E — Emotional Regulation

    Calming the storm inside.

  3. Module 3

    S — Stoic Communication

    Words that protect you.

  4. Module 4

    E — Evidence & Documentation

    Your paper trail is your power.

  5. Module 5

    T — Tactical Response

    Move with purpose, not panic.

  6. Module 6

    T — Truth

    Radical honesty with yourself.

  7. Module 7

    E — Exit

    Leaving what no longer serves you.

  8. Module 8

    R — Righteousness

    Reclaiming what you are owed.

  9. Module 9

    S — Setting Boundaries & Goals

    Building the next chapter.

Who it's for

Women

  • Women in reentry after incarceration
  • Domestic violence survivors
  • Women in transitional housing
  • Women navigating a crisis and starting over

Organizations

  • Shelters
  • Nonprofits
  • Churches and ministries
  • Jails and reentry programs
  • Workforce programs

Why organizations bring RESETTERS in

Housing, jobs, and referrals change a woman's circumstances. RESETTERS works on what has to change inside her, so the progress holds.

A reason to keep going

Every module gives women a win they can see. Momentum replaces the pull to go back.

Mindset shifts that last

Women learn to recognize manipulation, regulate under pressure, and make decisions from strategy instead of survival mode.

Stronger outcomes

Built to support the outcomes your program is measured on: stability, follow-through, and lower rates of returning to crisis, abuse, or incarceration.

Growth beyond your program

The skills go with her: documentation, boundaries, communication, and goals that keep working long after she leaves your care.

Progress you can see

Track each participant's progress from your admin dashboard, with safety flags when someone may be in danger.

Reports funders want

Completion rates and certificates of completion, ready to share in donor and grant reporting.

Get it FREE Enroll My Organization — $199/year

Small organization? Apply for a scholarship and get RESETTERS free, for your organization and the women you serve.

What organizations get

$199/year

  • Unlimited participants
  • An admin dashboard to follow progress
  • Safety flagging, so staff see when a participant may be in danger
  • Certificates of completion
  • Reports you can hand to funders
Enroll My Organization — $199/year

Ready to bring RESETTERS to the women you serve?

If cost is a barrier, apply for a scholarship. Every woman deserves access to this work.

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